Prince Ali

It's weird, approaching is one of the easiest things to do for me but all in all it seems the least successful. I'm torn between playing gatekeeper game (something I'm still not good at) and pushing the escalation as much as possible. As much as I want to get someone every night, I also want to play around with this lifestyle thing, and I'll tell you what, it takes a lot out of me to really stop myself from pushing the flirting up, mainly because I see everyone as gatekeepers now. I don't know if this is really detrimental to my approach skills.

I listened to Speer on Sinn and the Cities today and man I have somewhat of a newfound respect for this guy. His style of game didn't really jive with me when I watched in infield insider but the way he explains his mindset and how he doesn't ever really give a shit is something that I can take from. I used to be overly sensitive to where the girl is at but I think part of what I need to get better at is just removing emotions for the first 5 minutes and plowing my brains out with as many conversational topics as possible. His discussion of value was interesting in that he really seems to push the idea of giving value before taking. And afterwards, he just takes on the mentality that he deserves more than he has. I'm sure that when he does that it is something that just manifests wholly as he method acts that part.

I think I'm past the idea of needing to do stupid ass shit to build lots of instant attraction like Glenn Jason/BradP espouses. It's interesting going through some variety of soul searching and then re-listening to products. When I do that, I come in with already a new subset of beliefs so its like my belief is only reinforced by that GURU/product's message. Sinn and CJ have been way intrumental in removing some of my bad beliefs to help me move forward with my life and lifestyle. Cold approach is a very shaky road and I'd love really master this thing.